What's A Great Christmas Present?

I'm sure we all have our "Wish-List" which includes items that we would love to own. From the latest gadget to the trendiest in fashion there must be something that you are looking forward to get! We already have some sort of inclination as to what that great gift is going to consist of. But, as we let loose our imaginations with what great delights await us, permit me to put forward some questions:

1. Is this gift truly essential for me? Could I do without it?
2. Is it just me who's going to benefit?
3. Will other people loose out?
4. Is this gift beyond somebody's means?
5. Could it cause any division or alienation?
6. Will the gift remind me of the giver?
7. Will I receive this gift with the Spirit of Christmas?

Don't get me wrong! I'm not saying that we shouldn't give or receive presents -though many are not able! Let me get to the point: we are really throwing money away if we don't put some thought as to what someone else really needs. No wonder Christmas preparations are so hectic for so many! We want to get it right! But in order to do so we have to do our homework. For that, we need some clues as to the personality of the recipient.

Alternatively, do we get into a sombre mood because we didn't get what we wanted! Do we acknowledge the thought and love that lies behind a gift, i.e the giver.

There are many occasions for giving and receiving presents. But Christmas is different. We are sharing in a Spirit of generosity that is based on love. The amazement in a gift lies in the effort and concern that the giver has shown, or wishes to express. What's important is that you have been thought of. The point of gifts at Christmas is one thing: to realize that you are loved and wanted.

Yarm says: Don't just see the gift, see the treasure that lies behind the gift. That's the true present.